Chickmom your roos are absolutely gorgeous especially Andy. If it helps any with the cross beak I had, I had my husband hold her and I used a syringe to pump in a liquid food for her that I made out of chick feed, water, and some yogurt. I wish I had caught mine sooner because if I had she might have been able to make it. I would just use my finger to open her beak a bit and then squirt a bit of food in there and she usually tried to fight me but she still gobbled it up once she realized it was food. She also seemed to be able to eat a bit of mash in a bowl, I would just put her in her own box and she seemed to get a little bit of that. I am really sorry that you have to go through this, it's tough.
Backyardflock I have an australorp now and she is one of my skittish ones at the moment, but I work strange hours and haven't been able to spend as much time with these girls. Honestly my golden buff is one of the only ones that lets me pick her up without making it seem like I'm killing her. My golden buff and silver laced wyandotte are the first to come over to my hand and peck the feed out when I put my hand in there. I think it all depends on how much time you spend with your birds. I have heard good things about orpingtons though and originally they were what I wanted for my flock, but I got started late this year and didn't know about ordering offline until after I already had my EEs. But get them and then come back and update us on how they are and what their personalities are like.