This has been a bad, bad day

[canesisters]

I'm am so very, very sorry for your pain.

My husband died a few years ago. It was completely unexpected, and I think that I know what you're talking about. I found that grieving wasn't as 'simple' as the loss of someone I loved - but also the loss of 'what could've been'.
Like others have said, you will eventually come to a point when you realize all of a sudden that you haven't cried today. And then one day someone will say something that reminds you of something he said or did and you will be able to happily share the story and laugh.

If you don't have someone who will listen to you talk about what you're going through, you need to find someone. Regardless of how it feels, you are not the only one who is - or has ever gone through this. You are NOT alone.

 

[3goodeggs]

My heart breaks for you. I will keep you in my thoughts. I am so sorry.

 

[bgelber]

so sorry for your loss.

 

[TerriLaChicks]

 

[speckledhen]

I'm very sorry for your loss, Cassie. I can't even imagine what you must be going through right now.

 

[Chickenfan4life]

I am so sorry. I, too, am sure I have no idea how you must feel, but I know a little of how it feels. My best friend, almost like a grandmother to me, just died April, 2012. I still miss her. I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for comfort for you.

 

[CluckyCharms]

I cannot say I understand because I am not you. I will simply say I am so very sorry for your loss and please accept my condolences. Prayers being sent.

 

[Zinnia-Hen]

I'm incredibly sorry this had to happen to you. I lost my granddad several years ago, not having his presence around anymore was strange and upsetting, considering I shared the house with him. I hope the following year will be a pleasant one for you, despite your loss.

 

[Mattemma]

So very sorry for your loss.Hugs.

 

[Doubleyolker]

So sorry for your loss.