LOL, I to have 2 boys 18mths a part and both ADHD and believe me, the 11 ducks and 1 goose(Sebastopol) and my 10 house rabbits, 2 cats, 2 guinea pigs, 1 deaf great dane are NOT as much work to clean up then my two boys are who destructively mess my place up as soon as I turn around after I cleaned it up, and both boys are 11yrs old and 12 1/2yrs old, pre-teens. And one poster said maybe having your kids pitch in for a week or so as simple as feeding them, or collecting eggs, the simplest help goes a long way for a very tired burned out momma. And here I am debating on incubating a double yolk egg to see if I have viable twins and if they'll make it to full development and hatch. I'm glad you are keeping them, just a little help from your kids and dh will rejuvinate you, even if you say you don't mind, it's that "One more thing on the TO-DO list."