Toddlers are Quackers

[BullChick]

 

[BullChick]

Apparently school isn't going great. Yes, she will adjust. But I'm very worried about the fact that they aren't doing quiet time or naps.
She's been in a fight, and has a cut by her eye. She's also peeing herself in school. Since the bathrooms are kid sized, I know there is no reason. I started talking about the bathrooms months ago! Even going online to show her photos. Explaining that she needed to just go when she had to, and to remember to wash her hands. I always had her go in alone while here just to get her ready. Well, since she was capable of being alone.
She gets upset when I pick her up. I think her ribs are hurt. Maybe she's just complaining because she's tired, and complaining for the attention. I don't see bruising. I will check again at bath time.

 

[Bantambird]

Poor duckling! I bet she is so glad to be at your house again!
It's just the opposite for me on pottying with Princess. She is fully potty trained at school, but is difficult at home, because when I am not at home, and DH is, he finds it easier to just put a pull up on her than remember to get her to the bathroom. She just watches TV when I'm not home and she's not in preschool. So, she's in panties at school and diapers when at home and I'm not there.

 

[Cyneswith]

Aw, man. Poor MC and Duckling... Sorry the start of school isn't going well.

 

[shawluvsbirds]

Apparently school isn't going great. Yes, she will adjust. But I'm very worried about the fact that they aren't doing quiet time or naps.
She's been in a fight, and has a cut by her eye. She's also peeing herself in school. Since the bathrooms are kid sized, I know there is no reason. I started talking about the bathrooms months ago! Even going online to show her photos. Explaining that she needed to just go when she had to, and to remember to wash her hands. I always had her go in alone while here just to get her ready. Well, since she was capable of being alone.
She gets upset when I pick her up. I think her ribs are hurt. Maybe she's just complaining because she's tired, and complaining for the attention. I don't see bruising. I will check again at bath time.

Poor duckling! I wish they would have let you Home school her.

 

[BullChick]

Bantam, that stuff happens. I have no way of being sure, but I suspect that this peeing, in Duckling's case, wouldn't be happening if she left for school from here. Only because she's used to me, no one is fighting here(arguments happen with spouses. This is different), I put her to bed at a decent hour, she seems to like her quiet time most mornings. If I'm in the living room, she lays on me in silence a while. Again, no loud voices.
I don't know why she was put in a diaper at school though. How is she supposed to use the bathroom the rest of the school day?

 

[BullChick]

Aw, man. Poor MC and Duckling... Sorry the start of school isn't going well.

Thanks.

Poor duckling! I wish they would have let you Home school her.

Funny how that had been the plan since birth. It was cemented when she was learning so much here. Then this.
I am not her mother. I know. Not my decision to make.

 

[Cyneswith]

I'd be tempted to remind them of the homeschooling option.

 

[DwayneNLiz]

Apparently school isn't going great. Yes, she will adjust. But I'm very worried about the fact that they aren't doing quiet time or naps.
She's been in a fight, and has a cut by her eye. She's also peeing herself in school. Since the bathrooms are kid sized, I know there is no reason. I started talking about the bathrooms months ago! Even going online to show her photos. Explaining that she needed to just go when she had to, and to remember to wash her hands. I always had her go in alone while here just to get her ready. Well, since she was capable of being alone.
She gets upset when I pick her up. I think her ribs are hurt. Maybe she's just complaining because she's tired, and complaining for the attention. I don't see bruising. I will check again at bath time.

poor girl and poor abi for having to deal with the mess
she must be so confused and scared

Poor duckling! I bet she is so glad to be at your house again!
It's just the opposite for me on pottying with Princess. She is fully potty trained at school, but is difficult at home, because when I am not at home, and DH is, he finds it easier to just put a pull up on her than remember to get her to the bathroom. She just watches TV when I'm not home and she's not in preschool. So, she's in panties at school and diapers when at home and I'm not there.

ugh, just because HE finds it easier doesnt make it healthy

Bantam, that stuff happens. I have no way of being sure, but I suspect that this peeing, in Duckling's case, wouldn't be happening if she left for school from here. Only because she's used to me, no one is fighting here(arguments happen with spouses. This is different), I put her to bed at a decent hour, she seems to like her quiet time most mornings. If I'm in the living room, she lays on me in silence a while. Again, no loud voices.
I don't know why she was put in a diaper at school though. How is she supposed to use the bathroom the rest of the school day?

you are an amazing person and i dont know how you can put up with those idiots

 

[BullChick]

I appreciate the support.
I have to say, she's been dry since she arrived. She almost peed fifteen minutes ago. I asked if she had to go. Is she suuuuure?
Thirty seconds later, she had a close call. One thing is making me wonder. In the past week, if she says no, then runs in a few seconds later, she poops. If she says no, but doesn't run in, she just pees herself (did you follow that?). I'm thinking that it's only her desire to poop in the toilet that keeps her from peeing herself. I could be wrong. Might be a coincidence.