You must establish that you are the alpha in the pack. DO this by grabbing the dog and throwing them onto their back immediately when they go for one of them. THen, grab their throat and growl. Then, any time they start, growl at them. If you also walk outside with thme with a leash, and they bolt, yank the heck out of the choke collar (you can;t hurt them) and growl at the same time. THis will take a few weeks. I have raised yellow labs and Golden Doodles. I love dogs and can't abide mistreatment, BUt, a dog ythat is a bad neighbor is not bad, just needs to be trained.
When I got my chicks, I took each one and held it in front of my golden retriever's nose and talked to her., After a few moments she gave each one a great big kiss.
You can hurt them. Dogs have extremely sensitive organs in their throat that can and will be damaged if you yank on them. There is a *massive* difference in "yanking the heck out of the choke collar" and giving them a collar correction.
The other stuff you mentioned will not make a dog "respect" you, either. Throwing them on their backs and grabbing their throats is not even a reasonable punishment.
Here are just a few articles on dog dominance and its role in dog training. There are articles on Cesar Millan, as he is often associated with dog dominance.
http://www.woofology.com/alpha myth.html
In this list of articles, it also has articles on tools to avoid. I do not necessarily agree with this, as I don't believe any tool is particularly more dangerous or harms a dog more than any other tool. However, I do believe that you should have a PROFESSIONAL show you how to use and fit tools. The dominance articles are at the bottom.
http://www.dogwilling.com/articles---alphadominance-theory-and-other-training-myths.html
Another article on the "Alpha Dog"
http://www.whole-dog-journal.com/issues/14_12/features/Alpha-Dogs_20416-1.html
More information about dog dominance.
http://www.4pawsu.com/dominancemyth.pdf
After several years of research, I do not think dominance doesn't exist. BUT, I do not believe it is controlled using physical means. Dominance is not a linear thing - it is very fluid and changes very often. In my dog's case, he is "dominant" in situations involving places to sleep. Meaning, he does not want to give up his sleeping place to another being - human or animal. In other situations, our other dog is "dominant." Especially when it comes to food. My larger dog is happy to give the smaller dog food, but the smaller dog does not relinquish his food. The smaller dog is "dominant" in that situation. My ducks are "dominant" in food situations as well. My sister's cat is "dominant" when she meows for food and food is given to her for meowing.
You see how it works? Dominance is real, but it isn't about being the leader. Humans are already naturally the leaders because we have opposable thumbs, are able to feed the dogs, and dictate when they go out, where they go when we do let them go out, where they can sleep, where they can eat, etc. We control nearly every aspect of a dog's life. That does not dictate whether they will be "obedient" or not. My Akita/Husky mix is very obedient, and yet I do not practice the dominance theory(as in, I do not physically pin my dog down, nor am I physical with him at all unless it's to pet or play-wrestle with him - which, btw, he often "wins" at wrestling).