Thanks for your reply. I've only been allowed to pet one of the girls when she lays down for the male. At that time I take advantage and pet her head and neck also. I got them When they were young not sure how old but not super young. I use to sit in the little pen we had for them and thay would all roost on my arm all at once. Of course couldn't do that now. I spent a lot of time with them. So not sure y they r so unfriendly now. I've had several replies for my past posts one saying that turkeys r livestock not made to b pets. I understand that yet I c videos of turkeys acting quite like pets. Not gonna get anymore after these r gone. I'm not a spring chicken myself and it's hard on me especially in winter to take care of them. I guess the males so mean to me because he sees me as a rival with the girls. But he can b very dangerous and cause severe bodily harm should he get ahold of me. My husband says he's mad at me for keeping him separated from the girls. But he's so massive I know he would tear their backs up if he could get A hold of them. I let the girls out to run every day. I stay with them because we've had coyotes attempt to get in their pen at night. I don't let the male out. I tried that once and when my husband tried to get him back in his pen he attacked him. So he's confined to his pen. This all started because a wild turkey befriended me. We got close would eat out of my hand. Then the coyotes got her. A neighbor feeling sorry for me suggested I get some tame ones. One thing lead to another. They have separate pens only divided by a chain link fence both sides r at least 10x8 they have a coop attached with a roosting bar and nesting box. That's not very big but big enough to hold all three. It has 2 windows complete with storm/screens depending on weather. And as I've said I give them treats every day. Sunflower seeds dried mealworms and crackled corn in addition to their regular food. So think I've gone above for them. Just wish they'd show a little friendlyness