Bourbon Reds-- I started with a hen and tom. I loved them as they were docile and the tom not a problem. I have kids, no problem animals allowed. We raised 7 poults, all wonderful. THe 4 muskateers had free range of the farm. THen the next generation added 2 more toms to the free rangers-- all well behaved gentlemen.
NOw I can't speak for all turkeys -- just how mine have behaved. I have a number of other breeds from Porters and I have no problem with any of them, and half are males, ( of course!)
The aggressive males came up as a subject on the heritage thread and I had first shot at the question. THe reason why most heritage breeds have docile males is because the naughty boys get culled or eaten. No need to keep a bad boy around for long.
I did keep an aggressive rooster for too long-- he was a beloved pet. I kept 3 of his rooster sons and none are a problem. Perhaps the effect of their beloved mother. IDK, but 3 full brothers are not aggressive like the dad.