Ugh.. chickens uncared for, really complicated, my Dad is a swine. i just need to vent and i have no diary to write in nobody has to veiw

[The WinterWolf]

Long story short.. turns out my dad is a murderous swine and would hit my mom but when he tried to poison her that was the last straw. So.. we ran away. but of course the chickens are uncared for because he doesn't care about them. if you want the story it's down there and copied and pasted and edited from a PM where i described what was happening, and a few updates.
Ok, so my mom is sick, so she gets shots every day. vitamin shots. only she touches her own medicine because a while HE touched the needle and then he needed to change it, but he started raging and out of anger he stabbed her with it to the point where she cried half the night. then she saw him filling up a strange syringe and he tried to hide it but she followed him and he injected it into her medicine bottle and she saw and took a sample and left the next day, picking me and my brother up from school and getting the heck out of there. she's ok but she has a blood infection from our tap water that he was literally injecting her with.. so we found a friend's house that has a really nice place in the back. he's always hated women and thought they were dumber and especially my mom. he always treated me poorly and would try and fight my brother and would get in my face and wave his fist around and scream at me, but he always treated my mom worst. he is such a creep and put tracking devices on me and my brother's phones, which i hated but is ok, except he put trackers on my mom's phone. so we can't use our phones and my laptop might as well be a paperweight but anyway now we have a restraining order and a nice new house and he is almost out of our lives, besides all of our possessions being away. including our chickens. which he isn't locking up at night. he isn't feeding. i hope they are ok because one of these days there is going to be a predator or something and they won't be anyway thanks for reading i really needed to vent

 

[Alagirl]

Many hugs to you.

 

[Lovely Lettie]

Long story short.. turns out my dad is a murderous swine and would hit my mom but when he tried to poison her that was the last straw. So.. we ran away. but of course the chickens are uncared for because he doesn't care about them. if you want the story it's down there and copied and pasted and edited from a PM where i described what was happening, and a few updates.
Ok, so my mom is sick, so she gets shots every day. vitamin shots. only she touches her own medicine because a while HE touched the needle and then he needed to change it, but he started raging and out of anger he stabbed her with it to the point where she cried half the night. then she saw him filling up a strange syringe and he tried to hide it but she followed him and he injected it into her medicine bottle and she saw and took a sample and left the next day, picking me and my brother up from school and getting the heck out of there. she's ok but she has a blood infection from our tap water that he was literally injecting her with.. so we found a friend's house that has a really nice place in the back. he's always hated women and thought they were dumber and especially my mom. he always treated me poorly and would try and fight my brother and would get in my face and wave his fist around and scream at me, but he always treated my mom worst. he is such a creep and put tracking devices on me and my brother's phones, which i hated but is ok, except he put trackers on my mom's phone. so we can't use our phones and my laptop might as well be a paperweight but anyway now we have a restraining order and a nice new house and he is almost out of our lives, besides all of our possessions being away. including our chickens. which he isn't locking up at night. he isn't feeding. i hope they are ok because one of these days there is going to be a predator or something and they won't be anyway thanks for reading i really needed to vent

That's terrible I'm so sorry, praying for you and sending hugs

 

[Callender Girl]

Thank goodness you all are out of that house and the nightmare situation. And, thank goodness there was a friend who gave you a place to stay.

Of course, you are worried about your chickens, but at least you are safer.

Is there anyone besides us at BYC that you can talk to? When my life was at its rockiest, a very kind social worker helped me to straighten out all my jumbled thoughts and feelings.

But, I also found that just being able to write down what I was experiencing -- like you have here -- was helpful for me. In fact, it was one of the things the social worker recommended that I do. In a situation where you feel powerless, being able to tell your story can give you a feeling of at least a bit of power because you are controlling the narrative.

I hope you, your brother and mother are able to stay safe and are able to begin rebuilding your lives.

 

[LizGio]

This is something you need to reach out to law enforcement and a lawyer. If they were your mom's chickens or your chickens you have the right to rehome them.

 

[WIchickMama]

so sorry your mom, brother and you have had to go through this.

 

[raingarden]

The chickens are not important here. Forget about them.

 

[The WinterWolf]

This is something you need to reach out to law enforcement and a lawyer. If they were your mom's chickens or your chickens you have the right to rehome them.

we are rehoming them, we just can't go near him because he has really bad anger problems and my mom also can't drive but we need to go with friends he doesn't know so he doesn't target them. he had (or has) a lot of guns and they are super important to him and they got taken away but he just hid them at a neighbor's house so he might as well be armed. we finally have restraining orders though and bought a nice house.

Thank goodness you all are out of that house and the nightmare situation. And, thank goodness there was a friend who gave you a place to stay.

Of course, you are worried about your chickens, but at least you are safer.

Is there anyone besides us at BYC that you can talk to? When my life was at its rockiest, a very kind social worker helped me to straighten out all my jumbled thoughts and feelings.

But, I also found that just being able to write down what I was experiencing -- like you have here -- was helpful for me. In fact, it was one of the things the social worker recommended that I do. In a situation where you feel powerless, being able to tell your story can give you a feeling of at least a bit of power because you are controlling the narrative.

I hope you, your brother and mother are able to stay safe and are able to begin rebuilding your lives.

I talk to my mom a lot. the funny thing is my mom is a retired teacher and my dad is still working but he's "Hiding" the money in the retirement account like i said, he thinks we're stupid. the friend we are staying with has dogs and kittens and her own chickens though so i can just go down and hold them and pet the dogs and draw the chickens. i have some things to do

The chickens are not important here. Forget about them.

Yeah but i still don't think they should be there and i don't like that they are there and they are so nice and to me they might as well be dogs or cats.

 

[LizGio]

I wouldn't involve any of your friends I would ask a member of law enforcement to escort you to your property for safety

 

[Callender Girl]

There is a some value to having law enforcement escort whoever goes there. I'm sure I don't have to remind you that unstable people with guns are dangerous. A restraining order is a good first step, but it's a piece of paper that may or may not be enough to keep you from harm. I've been there.

I, like you, would also want to rescue my chickens or any other pets, and I hope you can, but please do so safely.

Please be careful.