I don't think voicing an opinion about the cruel treatment of horses is complaining...
As for 4-H, its very sad in my county. We have a very small county, which would lead you to believe we have very close knit 4-H clubs. NOT! Many of our 4-H clubs are run by leaders who don't want to leave their 4-H days in the past. That's not the problem...what is the problem is that many of these leaders and parents show for the money, and just that. They don't care about the "learning experience" and many of their children couldn't care less about being in 4-H.
I was in 4-H since I was in 5th grade (I think I was around 10 or so). I started out with the horses and moved over to small animal and poultry. However, I've done projects in just about every area. Horse is by far the worst, but cow and rabbit run a close second. My mom is now the 4-H leader of our own club, and I am the co-leader. I go to all the leader meetings and even though I have one year before I can legally be the superintendent of the poultry show, I basically run those duties as well. Next year I will take over my mom's position on that. We are working towards making things better, but its very hard when the people who are supposed to be running things are easily swayed by a few people they are afraid of. They make everything difficult...camping, entering animals, receiving premiums, judging...and don't even get me started on horse judges. The one judge they had that actually judged fairly was kicked out of the fairgrounds because apparently she was accused of hitting her horse. I know the people who accused her and I also knew that judge. She had trained me for about a year with my horse and had worked closely with several other 4-Hers who were showing. Never once did I ever see her hit or mistreat a horse and even though she had worked with many of us, she never played favorites! That was precisely the reason these "people" made a stink about her and made false accusations.
This year I am trying very, very hard to get a poultry showmanship class together for people showing their birds so they can have a little bit of hands on experience with their animals. That's something the chicken exhibitors just don't get. I wanted to make it so that if you entered chickens, you would have to set a time with me to do a little one on one showmanship. I would ask a few poultry related questions according to age group and then hand out prizes to the kids in each age group who were best able to answer questions and handle their birds. These same people I mentioned before (and who just happen to be involved with all the higher ups in the fair board committee!) made a big stink about it, saying their kids would not have the time to do this. (And guess what, I was not offering cash as prizes!) I was trying to do something fun for the kids so that they could have a good learning experience and now I have to make it very, very optional...even then I had some evil looks. The only reason I am still going through with it is for the kids. I know some members of our club and a few from others will have a blast with the showmanship.
I went completely off topic, but 4-H is another organization I have a lot of issues with. For so many years I had to sit back and take so much crud because I wasn't an "adult". Now I am and I've been standing up for myself and the 4-H kids...much to the dislike of many other leaders!