We have been calling them on the weekends like their father said we could. The last time we talked to them, they were at their grandmother's house for Christmas. They have been there for the last two and half weeks, somewhere in OR.
Our daughter has not been able to get ahold of her daughters since she deployed! She is upposed to be able to talk to them on the phone twice a week and daily emails on an email account set up just for that purpose. He has posted two emails on HIS myspace and that is it!
Well, I called both his cellphone AND his girlfriends on Christmas day. Just what I have been expecting happened! I got recorded messages on both phones saying; By subscribers request, this phone does not accept incoming calls!!!!
Our DD called from Afghanistan this morning to ask me if I was getting the same messages. She is on the phone to her lawyer this morning.
Because no one can talk to them now, we have no idea where they are, or if they are okay. I can't even do a welfare check now, because they weren't at his house. The oldest one told me they were staying at grandmas until after the new year!
After DD talks to her lawyer and does what he can, I will call up my brother who is a paralegal at an office where they specialize in child support and do missing person investigation. Even though we are all in CA and they are in OR.(at least last we knew).
WE are so afraid that he will run off with them somewhere, so he doesn't have to give them back when DD comes home in May. When she voiced her concern of this to the courts, the judge told her if he does take off with the girls, a warrant will be put out for him and he will be charged with kidnapping, go to prison for a very long time and lose ALL rights to the girls.
A LOT OF GOOD THAT DOES AFTER THE FACT!!!
DGS that thankfully we have; woke up from a nightmare the other night, he came into our room and woke DH up. He told him that he had a nightmare and could he have some NYQUIL, BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT IT;S FOR!!!! I this is what this so called father does, along with all of the other allegations that we can't PROVE, what is he doing with our sweet girls!!
His girlfriend was supposed to have had a bay right around Christmas, he is ready to start ANOTHER new family(his third!).
I can't understand why the courts would let him have these girls, since he had already gotten girls taken from him and all his rights he signed away! The courts said it had no bearing on this case.WHAT!?!?
I spent all afternoon yesterday upset and worrying about those little girls. I feel so helpless. Thanks for the release.
Monica
Our daughter has not been able to get ahold of her daughters since she deployed! She is upposed to be able to talk to them on the phone twice a week and daily emails on an email account set up just for that purpose. He has posted two emails on HIS myspace and that is it!
Well, I called both his cellphone AND his girlfriends on Christmas day. Just what I have been expecting happened! I got recorded messages on both phones saying; By subscribers request, this phone does not accept incoming calls!!!!
Our DD called from Afghanistan this morning to ask me if I was getting the same messages. She is on the phone to her lawyer this morning.
Because no one can talk to them now, we have no idea where they are, or if they are okay. I can't even do a welfare check now, because they weren't at his house. The oldest one told me they were staying at grandmas until after the new year!
After DD talks to her lawyer and does what he can, I will call up my brother who is a paralegal at an office where they specialize in child support and do missing person investigation. Even though we are all in CA and they are in OR.(at least last we knew).
WE are so afraid that he will run off with them somewhere, so he doesn't have to give them back when DD comes home in May. When she voiced her concern of this to the courts, the judge told her if he does take off with the girls, a warrant will be put out for him and he will be charged with kidnapping, go to prison for a very long time and lose ALL rights to the girls.
A LOT OF GOOD THAT DOES AFTER THE FACT!!!
DGS that thankfully we have; woke up from a nightmare the other night, he came into our room and woke DH up. He told him that he had a nightmare and could he have some NYQUIL, BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT IT;S FOR!!!! I this is what this so called father does, along with all of the other allegations that we can't PROVE, what is he doing with our sweet girls!!
His girlfriend was supposed to have had a bay right around Christmas, he is ready to start ANOTHER new family(his third!).
I can't understand why the courts would let him have these girls, since he had already gotten girls taken from him and all his rights he signed away! The courts said it had no bearing on this case.WHAT!?!?
I spent all afternoon yesterday upset and worrying about those little girls. I feel so helpless. Thanks for the release.
Monica