Venting - I hate my moms b/f

[hypnofrogstevie]

He has the same insurance plan. My mom pays the bills and buys the food with her money. I have tired to correct things. I talked to him but his excuse is "I pay the bills" He dont have to listen to us or try to help when there is a 2 man job involved.

 

[smom1976]

I would move out...

your old enough.

 

[hypnofrogstevie]

I know. I am trying to find a roommate

 

[Katy]

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Sorry...I don't have sympathy for you. Not trying to be mean, but 23 is high time for you to be out on your own. I don't think it's your place to correct things in your mom's house. If he has a job and pays bills he's higher in the pecking order than you are. If you really want things to change you need to grow up and get on with your life.

 

[hypnofrogstevie]

Yeah well I am done with this. He is worse then my old dad. at least my old dad helped me with problems.

 

[Marlinchaser]

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I think you are on the WRONG page, he obviously doensnt want to be you dad, he wants to be your moms boyfriend, and you are just extra baggage that he is PUTTING UP WITH, maybe he treats you the way he does because he is hoping you will catch on and move out. Cut the apron strings, and get out. Call 1-800-THE-ARMY they are always looking for a few good MEN.

 

[Buster]

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I think you are on the WRONG page, he obviously doensnt want to be you dad, he wants to be your moms boyfriend, and you are just extra baggage that he is PUTTING UP WITH, maybe he treats you the way he does because he is hoping you will catch on and move out. Cut the apron strings, and get out. Call 1-800-THE-ARMY they are always looking for a few good MEN.

That is actually a great idea- the military would be a good way to go. It would definitely help you get out of your situation and then you could get out and go to school or do whatever you wanted. It's been a great thing for a LOT of guys I know.

 

[hypnofrogstevie]

I tired the army. They never called back lol. I have asthma. Thats why lol. Dont want anybody wheezing on the front lines. Thing is he wanted me to call him step dad last year but I cant. Well I am going to try and figure things out with this. He said we are like his kids yet he treats me like (something that floats). I have no respect for that man. When my mom got her dads money form the will he wanted to spend it on all jets stuff and he said in his own words "I hate working and when your mom gets that money. I am going to stay home and let her work". If I move out now I will be happy and proud cause he did not move out till he was 28.

 

[CrowinKing]

Ah what the heck you can live in the room in the basement used to be my old bedroom I could use the extra help with firewood

! And there's plenty of space for the chickens!

 

[Marlinchaser]

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There are 5 braches of the service, and I doubt that asthma would be a disqualifier, and they would have called you back to let you know, sounds like khe fits in just fine, he comes from a long line of Slackers too, hold on there steve, 5 more years and you can be just like him(that you supposedly hate for being exactly like you)