Wait... YOU are giving ME the silent treatment?!?!

[LittleChickenRacingTeam]

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See, this is where you are going astray. It's not so much contributing, as obeying.

Although I worship Satan, I find certain passages in the Bible as good advice for marriages.

 

[LittleChickenRacingTeam]

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Nah. I'm not the marryin' type... AS EVIDENCED BY 5 YEARS OF NO RING.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!

It was 12 years before I let her attach the Ball & Chain to my ankle.

Nothing really changed, except it's harder for me to dance now.

 

[Poulets De Cajun]

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Nah. I'm not the marryin' type... AS EVIDENCED BY 5 YEARS OF NO RING.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!

Well I can't put a ring on your finger, but I can definitely do your hair...LOL

 

[JennsPeeps]

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I *do* need a haircut. Do you do house calls in WA State? I'll make you dinner! Do you speak French, "Poulets de Cajun"?

Here's what's on the menu at our house in the next 2 weeks. Let me know what strikes your fancy.

Seafood salad sandwiches with melted cheese on English muffins*
Korean BBQ* beef
Lasagna* with fresh bread*
Pot roast*
Roasted chicken, curried carrots*
Beef in wine sauce* with fresh bread*
Stuffed pork chops with applesauce*
Chili* & cornbread*
Mexican night
Hamburgers with sweet potato fries*
Fresh pasta
Squash, wild rice, and sausage soup*
Pho
Grilled tuna fish sandwiches

(* = things I've made from scratch)

 

[lengel]

Don't compromise. When you get that angry and come to talk to us instead of talking to him, there's a problem. There are plenty of guys who would marry you just for your cooking skills. Find someone who appreciates your strengths. Positive feedback is so important in a relationship.

Deep breaths. Take care.

 

[Poulets De Cajun]

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I speak a little Cajun French, which is pretty much just slang french. Its not proper french by any stretch of the imagination.

And just for reference, where I am from (South of I-10) in Louisiana, eating is a sport! So whatever you decide to put on the menu, I'll eat it! (Just make sure and put some seasoning on it please....)

 

[d.k]

* The man is making an extremely serious error, you know? Getting you p.o'.d while still using you to fix his meals-- isn't the sign of a rocket scientist!! But, I expect you know this already.

 

[LittleChickenRacingTeam]

Do you do takeout???

Both of these sound good....

Beef in wine sauce* with fresh bread*
Stuffed pork chops with applesauce*

 

[redhead83402]

ahh Jen, I am so sorry to hear that! About that no ring thing ~ you may not like this, but this is what my mother used to wag her finger at me & say "Why buy the cow when you are already getting the milk for free?!"

Seems as though he sort of takes advantage... but then, that's just from this one-sided viewpoint.

Question ~ what made you love him in the first place, is that still good enough or still applicable, & is & has your life been enhanced or degraded since you began the relationship?
Do you have the same goals? Is this a grow-old-together love? Can you make each other laugh?

Hope it gets better, whatever it takes ~
~Red

 

[LittleChickenRacingTeam]

d.k :

* The man is making an extremely serious error, you know? Getting you p.o'.d while still using you to fix his meals-- isn't the sign of a rocket scientist!! But, I expect you know this already.

I'm guessing there are other issues. He's a GUY, so you will have to drag it out of him.​