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Family is where things have a tendancy to get very raw and honest. I am not an elder in my family by anymeans, but when a favorite Auntie of mine told me of her plans to leave her very nice husband for VERY selfish reasons.......well......I didn't bite my tongue one bit to tell her about her self. Now, I won't hear from her for another year or so, but it had to be said. With my family, there is a lot of negativity, and that's really the base of it all. There's no hoping for a future with 'em, no cup is half full. I get warned about walking in the rain, even when it's sunny out, if you know what I mean. I just don't want so much negative thoughts around me or my children.....
Great post! Agreed... The only thing holding my small family together is my dad. I know exactly what will happen when I lose him, it will be devastating but unavoidable.
I knew once my parents were gone, geography would kick in. I dreaded that some family members who live far away would stop coming home. Then, we found out about Dad's will. The family split into the "it was his money, and he could whatever he wanted with it" faction and the "only an ******* would discriminate against some of his children because they married against his wishes" factions. I no longer regret that some of my brothers and sisters live far away. I wish one lived even farther away.
And I hope there really is a purgatory.