Cockatrice6420
Songster
Don't people teach manners anymore? I always hold the door open for anyone behind me. If someone looks like they need help with something I ask if I can help. My husband is the same way. He also has those old fashioned southern manners.
We were pulling into the Ivars and I saw an elderly lady sitting on the ground with a bit younger lady with her. Several people just walked by them ignoring them. I watched and saw them struggling to get the one up. After we parked I told Mike what I saw since he didnt while driving. I went and asked them if they needed any help and they seemed relieved. She had stumbled on the curb and fell. They had been trying to get her up for a bit. Mike actually picked her up since he's much stronger than me.
It made me mad that no one else even spoke to them.
-edited because I do say bad words and forgot not to here.
I have 5 kids and try to instill manners the best I can these days. On the south they have a bit more physical control on their kids still. My kids are pretty good, and you can guarentee us to help in town when we see the need! My kids may be punks to eachother, but for example, my daughter always befriends people who are at a physical or social dissadvantage.