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Went thru similar when my daughter was 17. Good student, no issues, then suddenly she's smothered and has to leave. ? Law said she could, so what could I do but stand by? I left the country. I told her straight out I wasn't going to hang around for the Sheriff to show up and tell me she was in jail or, God forbid, dead in a ditch. I told her I refused to do it.
Soooo hard to do, but that tough love thing really works. Several months later she was working 2 burger joint jobs just to pay rent and all her "friends" were eating her groceries and abusing her hospitality. Large. The truck we had given her had been impounded, and all her "friends" were drifting away since she couldn't drive them around...
I am SO fortunate. My youngun finally realized I wasn't the bad guy. We worked out a living arrangement that included her contributing to expenses, even tho I didn't need it.
Now my oldest grandson is about to graduate. He's giving her grief, very much like you've described. And so the cycle continues...
I wish you strength, sista girl, until your DS figures out what he's losing. And I will keep ya in my prayers...
Thank you so much....i really need to good thoughts. I just hope he pulls it together. But, I think that he will have to learn the hard way. I will keep everyone updated.
Im so sorry, kids they keep us jumping dont they. My oldest son came home one night and he had hit something in his dads truck. Than he had the gall to yell at me, I told him to get out thats wasnt what family did here. So he did. I didnt know where he went and it was just days before Christmas, it killed me. But he did come home and all was well..