not to double post, but yes the DH built a pole barn that is 12 X 24, a shed roof, and has clear corrugated panels around the top of the high wall for light, he loves his space, and I love it when he goes to work
He has all his stuff in there, and sneaks cigarettes,,,
but what the heck...as long as he has a place, and that gives me time by myself. It keeps us sane. And DH has a place to tear stuff apart and build stuff and repair and invent. He has all his glues and screws and bolts organized, and has a blast in there.
WE also have a chemical toilet in there (like in an RV) that has the blue water in it...and he can go down there with his soduko puzzle book, a cup of coffee, usually a cigarette, and start his fire while he does the soduko and smokes and takes care of his morning bathroom biz...if ya know what I mean.
OK for me !
What does this neighbor woman think is happening ? Does she think he may be having a little fun ?
I would not last very long around here before I would speak my mind and ask her what is her ensecure problem ?
And I would ask her to not come over or scream at her husband anymore around me, it is sickening.
Gosh, let the guy have some fun !