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No problem. I don't have time to arrange it right now either. Oldest DS just stormed out of the house....waiting for his return to hear if he decides family and live here or friends and partying constantly. And yes....I found some paraphanellia in his room.
Teresa-
You have my sympathies. Been there, done that, with the teenage son. I am so tired of the drama. This will be his senior year, then it's shape up or ship out. On a good note, he got a job at McDonald's yesterday, so maybe there is hope... Hope things turn around for your family.
Well, my sone has 1 more year of school too. But between all the drama and what I found I had had it. I laid down the law and said it is either this (I had a document for him to sign) or leave. I have 2 younger kids and I don't need his negative influence on them. He is having problems with loosing his phone for 1 week. He doesn't seem to mind that we are taking total control back of his life. I will know where he is at all times. He blew a gasket and started swearing and cusing when I told him I have told some adults what happened. Said he would get a reputation...told him....well then you should have made a better choice then to bring that crap into my house. He left and went to grandpa and grandma's...they talked for some time and he came home and apologized for yelling at me. He gave me a hug. But he does not want to give up the phone. I told him I would not compromise. If he could not do without a phone for 1 week (there is the house phone if he really needed to call someone) then he needs to leave. I won't deal with it any more. It is hard. I don't want to do this to him....but it is not fair to the younger two are doing great. I won't compromise. I told himhe had until tomorrow to tell me. You are in my prayers as will be your teenage son. It is hard on them and you. Hang in there for his sake. I am told it gets better. Not sure when that it is.
