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This is why having my DH traveling for his job works for us. It was so much nicer to have him gone during the week, and have him happy when he came home on the weekends. Even now there are times when I am just plain ready for him to go back to work. It is less stressful for me when it's just me and the critters.
It is also nice to have your 'space' where you have it nice & stressfree as you designed it.
This being winter is even tougher here for me, with DH "underfoot" constantly.
I want to watch exercise videos..and drag out my weights & machines to get my PT done...eat smallish meals..have my teas.
he wants Monster Trucks shows and loud car racing...COPS shows, sirens wailing...cops arresting people fighting
Meat, potatoes, desserts & fried everything......you know, guy food!
In such a small space it can cause quite the friction.
Sometimes I just want to pack a small bag & go stay in a Motel overnight for PEACE & quiet..(no meals to cook, no dishes to do!!).....rest, it would be such a treat!!
I would say you can come and stay with me as long as we avoid each other for parts of the day. lol DH is going to be away a lot during the first 3 months of 2012. So I have an extra bed and a very nice bathroom for anyone that wants a bit of time out.