Thank you 4312. He knows the consequences of his actions were he to get 'caught'. It's not the DUI and the money - although it would seriously 'hurt'. Driver's license-well, he lives less than 2 miles from his job. I'm more concerned with all of the lives he put in danger. He drives a lifted F350. His truck is a tank. Voluntary manslaughter? Yeah. Living the rest of your life with the consequences? hell yeah.I am sorry. there are those on here who have had to deal with this...only their husband got "caught" and had to "pay the price". If they come on they can chose to speak up if they choose to. But we all feel for you and understand your frustration.
Does your DH realize the average DUI cost around $5000. May want to run some numbers past him when he sobers up. Also let him know he could lose his license. That is if he does not crash and kill someone or loose his own life. Very scary. I can simpathize. I am sorry and I feel for you.
All I had to do was LOOK at him this morning when he got up. And then I told him I had a change of plans and that the kids and I wouldn't be gone for only 4 days, we are taking off for 8 to spend with friends and family in Oregon. He can sit and spin in his own stew for a while, I need my Mommy.