I remember being forced to do that. I usually just gave up a food item I liked. One year I gave up milk, but I quickly changed it to orange juice after I started going through "withdrawals" after only a day without it. I still get that weird, desperate feeling if I go a day without milk.
I do not think that's the best way to go about it . . . giving up things you enjoy that don't hurt anyone or anything. I like the idea of giving up gossiping, because that can be a spiteful, though enjoyable habit, and it would be good to get away from that. Though it would mean more if the habit wasn't immediately taken back up again after lent, but I guess that would just make it like a second New Years resolution.
If you watch television I'd recommend giving up that. I did back in high school, and I couldn't believe how much of my days were reclaimed just by giving up TV. By the end of Lent I found I didn't miss it, and now high school is long gone and I still don't watch television. That was the most worthwhile lent ever.
I do not think that's the best way to go about it . . . giving up things you enjoy that don't hurt anyone or anything. I like the idea of giving up gossiping, because that can be a spiteful, though enjoyable habit, and it would be good to get away from that. Though it would mean more if the habit wasn't immediately taken back up again after lent, but I guess that would just make it like a second New Years resolution.
If you watch television I'd recommend giving up that. I did back in high school, and I couldn't believe how much of my days were reclaimed just by giving up TV. By the end of Lent I found I didn't miss it, and now high school is long gone and I still don't watch television. That was the most worthwhile lent ever.