I just had a very dear friend tell someone I did business with that I knew his g.f. was a druggie. Didn't ask me if it was ok, or even warn me she was going to do it. Thank goodness they don't know my last name, cell or anything like that, because while I KNEW it, I didn't care as I only had to deal with them ONE day. I am upset about this, and it makes me feel bad and like I was a hypocrite because I was nice to the girl and then for her to find out what I was really thinking. I won't ever see them again, but it still made me feel icky inside. I don't feel like I shouldn't be able to have an opinion among my private friends, and then worry it will be told. What am I thinking . . . .it always gets told, doesn't it.