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BRAVO BRAVO!!!!
I kind of have to agree. I got slammed back in the beginning of this post for saying my husband was not a huge fan of chickens until they started laying eggs. My husband was accused of being controlling and only acquiescing when he got something out of it. I thought that was completely unfair. That is not my husband at all, in fact if anyone is controlling in this house it's ME. My husband lets me have free-rein when it comes to everything and anything. He does have reservations sometimes about some of my harebrained ideas and stops me long enough to discuss it. That I do not consider to be "controlling". I love him and respect him enough to listen and sometimes even reconsider my plans. We have a partnership. A partnership involves 2 people. Not just one.
I feel that a lot of folks here took the bad experiences they had with marriage and made a lot of assumptions about the rest of our marriages. Not everyone is in an unhealthy relationship.