When it comes to permanent stuff like the shower or countertops, hubby and I have to agree on color, etc.I wanted my kitchen countertops to be a specialty color but my husband waited for me to go to work and then went and bought what I have deemed the ugliest countertops he could find and that was it
If it's something I have to clean, I have the last say. For instance, I've told him when it comes time to replace the fridge, no way it will have "texture to hide fingerprints." (He thought it looked cool when he saw it in a store.) Yeah, hide fingerprints with grime in all the little crevices, dear.