I grew up a lot like that. I was helping butcher animals when I was still less then half a midget. (I'm a midget now so I can say that

) Anyways...my family was always big on giving a good life, humane slaughter (which killing cones aren't), and never teach an animal to love you if your intent is the dinner table. Pets are not edible period. Teach table animals to trust, but not to love. I'm very comfortable with butchering and sometimes still do if it's needed. I also absolutely agree that any home raised table animal is lucky compared to any animal that makes it to the grocery store. My tenderhearted kids feel the same, so they're also fine with eating home raised and butchered. Better flavor, less chemicals and a better life for the animals.
My problem is that somewhere along the way I started to see the potential pet in every animal, so it no longer matters if they love me. I'm half in love with them all even if they run screaming at the site of me

. So yep... butcherings become an only if needed thing. Kinda sad since a brief life with a family is better than anything commercial raised animals experience.