Easy peasy reply for any time one of them asks you for a favor...
SORRY, BUT THAT'S NONE OF MY BUSINESS.
They don't want you knowing their business, then they shouldn't drag you into it. Simple enough. You're just trying to respect their wishes. Agree with others, YOUR hubby, YOUR baby, YOUR home come first. You made a promise to THEM (and yourself)... forsake all others... instinctual oath to child to protect, love, etc. You must keep your word to them... and if it just happens to lower your BP that's just a bonus.
Maybe if they don't have you to leech off of, and to blame, they'll suck it up and start making decent choices... not my experience, but maybe.
SORRY, BUT THAT'S NONE OF MY BUSINESS.
They don't want you knowing their business, then they shouldn't drag you into it. Simple enough. You're just trying to respect their wishes. Agree with others, YOUR hubby, YOUR baby, YOUR home come first. You made a promise to THEM (and yourself)... forsake all others... instinctual oath to child to protect, love, etc. You must keep your word to them... and if it just happens to lower your BP that's just a bonus.
Maybe if they don't have you to leech off of, and to blame, they'll suck it up and start making decent choices... not my experience, but maybe.
