Romance? When the Missus had a fender bender, my first question was "Are you okay?" 2nd question "who you hit, is okay?" Not asking about the car or expense---romantic.
Romance? Working for 30 years, paying for the lifestyle, kids, and associated "stuff" and still looking forward to coming home for the weekend without the kids around----romantic.
Romance? Holding her hand during surgery.
Romance? Being asked what I want for dinner, then saying "fried chicken", she goes out, catches, kills, scalds, butchers, then frys up a great dinner with mashed potatoes and gravy.
Romance?----Oh,,,wait, that last one was a fantasy!