They come to my house, but not until I am perfectly comfortable with them AND I make sure they know they can't come in my house or yard until my dogs are put away because they bite.
I also make sure that they know we have weird hours for being awake, asleep and home and that someone is here almost all of the time.
It's the truth and I only meet people during the daylight hours and when my husband is home. I'd rather do that than meet someplace where I know no one.
It's a hard decision. Be careful and make sure you have their names and phone numbers. I have caller ID and make sure I do not take private calls. If I see private call, they have to leave a message. If they email me, then I must talk to them on the phone before I will give out any location information.
Hope something in this rambling is helpful.