When should I tell Hubby?

[GiddyMoon]

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You did the right thing. We wonder why in our society we have so many marital problems..then problems with our kids....because so many marriages get caught up with the little foxes that spoil the vine.

I didn't want to say anything becuase I didn't want to tick you off...but lying to our spouse is wrong, period. We need to have more respect for our mate than our desire to have something. I am glad you made this right.

I do have a really great husband. I broke my neck 3 years ago(34yrs old), herniated 3 discs with spinal cord compression. and he has stood by my side and has been extremely supportive. He puts up with my limitations and tries to understand what it's like to live in severe chronic pain. I'm very fortunate to have him. I would never lie to him, I just wouldn't mention it unless he asked.

We all have our weaknesses. lol I too have a really great one this time around..the last one..not so much..

This one took on a woman from a very abusive marriage of ten years, 4 kids under 12, 3 on the Autism spectrum ..I get it..I do.

I am blessed by having a husband who thinks my weaknesses are cute

We only really wanted 5-10 chickens...I order 25...all he could do was laugh...I was thankful.

 

[NewOldMotherHen]

Was married 30 plus years. The boss is now deceased. Getting permission to buy chicks or anything else is no longer necessary, but from experience I recommend full disclosure.