Who are your BYC BFFS?

[NatureFreak]

ray's two cents :

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I've mucked up friendships worse than you did with MH today. You guys were just joking around - I've been in situations where there has been slandering, flying of colourful language and basically just - point of no return friendship break.

You recover from this sort of stuff. The bigger fights... well, the friendships just can't be fixed, but I use them to learn from what I did wrong and become a better person. That's all I can say.

I can usually fix relationships, even if they get messed up bad. Only one person in my entire life. Well, maybe this other person, but more so with the first one. Who knows if it will ever get fixed. Most likely not.

Heck, on a forum once, when I first joined I got in a HUGE fight (it was really mean, bad stuff) with the person who is now my bestest friend and I trust to tell her anything and had already PMed one of the moderators asking for them to please delete my account. Except, luckily, they had a policy thing that they didn't delete accounts.

Saved meh.

 

[Fierlin1182]

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I've mucked up friendships worse than you did with MH today. You guys were just joking around - I've been in situations where there has been slandering, flying of colourful language and basically just - point of no return friendship break.

You recover from this sort of stuff. The bigger fights... well, the friendships just can't be fixed, but I use them to learn from what I did wrong and become a better person. That's all I can say.

I can usually fix relationships, even if they get messed up bad. Only one person in my entire life. Well, maybe this other person, but more so with the first one. Who knows if it will ever get fixed. Most likely not.

Heck, on a forum once, when I first joined I got in a HUGE fight (it was really mean, bad stuff) with the person who is now my bestest friend and I trust to tell her anything and had already PMed one of the moderators asking for them to please delete my account. Except, luckily, they had a policy thing that they didn't delete accounts.

Saved meh.

Same here. I really regret saying anything at all, but it's helped me to, ya know, really think before I act now.

Actually, one person who I used to fight with all the time sent me a message the other day. We made up and are now pretty good friends. You never know when life can throw something like that at you, I was not expecting that at all!

I have had a lot of trouble with forums in the past too. Except I knew that they couldn't delete accounts so I made a new one. That just ended up in even more trouble. Trust me, you never want to do that.

Never again, I've learnt my lesson.

I'm glad your friendship was saved though.

 

[NatureFreak]

ray's two cents :

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I can usually fix relationships, even if they get messed up bad. Only one person in my entire life. Well, maybe this other person, but more so with the first one. Who knows if it will ever get fixed. Most likely not.

Heck, on a forum once, when I first joined I got in a HUGE fight (it was really mean, bad stuff) with the person who is now my bestest friend and I trust to tell her anything and had already PMed one of the moderators asking for them to please delete my account. Except, luckily, they had a policy thing that they didn't delete accounts.

Saved meh.

Same here. I really regret saying anything at all, but it's helped me to, ya know, really think before I act now.

Actually, one person who I used to fight with all the time sent me a message the other day. We made up and are now pretty good friends. You never know when life can throw something like that at you, I was not expecting that at all!

I have had a lot of trouble with forums in the past too. Except I knew that they couldn't delete accounts so I made a new one. That just ended up in even more trouble. Trust me, you never want to do that.

Never again, I've learnt my lesson.

I'm glad your friendship was saved though.

Oh, there are SO many things that i have said that I wished I wouldn't have. So many it practically kills me to think about it.


Okay, I'm a real blonde here, what on earth is this smilie for???

 

[Fierlin1182]

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Same here. I really regret saying anything at all, but it's helped me to, ya know, really think before I act now.

Actually, one person who I used to fight with all the time sent me a message the other day. We made up and are now pretty good friends. You never know when life can throw something like that at you, I was not expecting that at all!

I have had a lot of trouble with forums in the past too. Except I knew that they couldn't delete accounts so I made a new one. That just ended up in even more trouble. Trust me, you never want to do that.

Never again, I've learnt my lesson.

I'm glad your friendship was saved though.

Oh, there are SO many things that i have said that I wished I wouldn't have. So many it practically kills me to think about it.


Okay, I'm a real blonde here, what on earth is this smilie for???

I spent ages fretting over the things I did wrong.
Heck, it just pains your heart to cry over spilt milk.
I spent months on my knees wailing at the sight of the stuff on the floor...

At least now I make sure I have both hands on the bottle before I lift it off the table.

(Did that make sense?

)

basically means either SHHH or I need to shut up. Other people might have different ideas though.

 

[NatureFreak]

ray's two cents :

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With me it's just that I open up to people I really trust, but not to them strangers who could go blabbing around everywhere (even if they are my friends

) And to some people, like you said, I'd really rather not tell them a word.

Sometimes I get so annoyed by the end of it that I just spit it out, and then immediately regret it.

I swear, sometimes I need some of this stuff --->

I wish regretting never existed, because if we didn't have that emotion, life would be so much less stressful. Ya know?

 

[Fierlin1182]

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Sometimes I get so annoyed by the end of it that I just spit it out, and then immediately regret it.

I swear, sometimes I need some of this stuff --->

I wish regretting never existed, because if we didn't have that emotion, life would be so much less stressful. Ya know?

Regrets make for a better future, IMO.

Well, I'm thinking this way because if I don't, they would take over my life like they did before, so yeah! I know!

I'm just trying to remain positive about everything. Have a good night, ttyl.

 

[Blonde]

Mine are WooingWyandotte and idybityprettylidy!

 

[NatureFreak]

ray's two cents :

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Oh, there are SO many things that i have said that I wished I wouldn't have. So many it practically kills me to think about it.


Okay, I'm a real blonde here, what on earth is this smilie for???

I spent ages fretting over the things I did wrong.
Heck, it just pains your heart to cry over spilt milk.
I spent months on my knees wailing at the sight of the stuff on the floor...

At least now I make sure I have both hands on the bottle before I lift it off the table.

(Did that make sense?

)

basically means either SHHH or I need to shut up. Other people might have different ideas though.

Yes, it did, at least, to me anyways. All except for the Split milk part. Maybe if it was all old and clumpy then you could split it in half if it was hard enough . . .

JK (not that Blonde)

Ah. Well, that makes sense. in that case, if only I had that smiley when i needed him.

 

[NatureFreak]

ray's two cents :

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I wish regretting never existed, because if we didn't have that emotion, life would be so much less stressful. Ya know?

Regrets make for a better future, IMO.

Well, I'm thinking this way because if I don't, they would take over my life like they did before, so yeah! I know!

I'm just trying to remain positive about everything. Have a good night, ttyl.

Well yeah. I do a lot of reflecting that really does me good along with my regretting, and it's not like regretting is gonna go away ya know, so.

Still, less regrets = less stress. But, yeah, I have to keep my regrets from just consuming me sometimes. Sometimes I'll have a day full of regrets and my day was just wasted. But if I really get into the regret then I start reflecting upon it and seeing what I could do differently next time, ye know, wait a little bit before I blurt out something, slam a door, leave a room.

 

[Fierlin1182]

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Regrets make for a better future, IMO.

Well, I'm thinking this way because if I don't, they would take over my life like they did before, so yeah! I know!

I'm just trying to remain positive about everything. Have a good night, ttyl.

Well yeah. I do a lot of reflecting that really does me good along with my regretting, and it's not like regretting is gonna go away ya know, so.

Still, less regrets = less stress. But, yeah, I have to keep my regrets from just consuming me sometimes. Sometimes I'll have a day full of regrets and my day was just wasted. But if I really get into the regret then I start reflecting upon it and seeing what I could do differently next time, ye know, wait a little bit before I blurt out something, slam a door, leave a room.

I don't think a day of regrets is wasted.

WELL, I used to

But I guess that sort of thinking just gets you regretting more.

I prefer to think of it that it's pretty much impossible to appreciate good times if you don't have to endure through some bad.

Usually soon afterwards, things start to improve.