I like to  hand sew.  I make quilt blocks.  I find it is very calming as well.  I don't think I have a finished product to show but I've made several different style quilt blocks that have patterns or not.  If not, I'll draw it out and cut out templates for myself.  It's been a while since I spent time doing hand work, except for a block swap on here that I'm involved in.  I'm doing applique for it.  I have five finished and have seven to go.  If you'd like to see those, you can go to my profile page and click on the chicken block swap due June 15.  As far as doing something just for the relaxation, I haven't in a while.  I'm still adjusting to my bi-focal glasses and its a little bit difficult.
 
I do have a favorite quilting pattern.  It's called French Star.  I'll see if I can find some pictures of it to show you.