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Yadda , yadda , yadda. I'm sorry but unfortunately the rest of the world is not like you or me. Yeah I grew up poor too and yeah I had to learn just like you, but that has only made me understand how others who are like I was and how they feel and see things. Everyone is not the same. As for the Home Depot thing, no one should go into debt to prove anything, at all costs. Even if it means snobby neighbors. Which by the way I endured. Not one of them ever helped me in anyway except to give me attitude. I will NOT become one of them just because I now live in a better neighborhood than they did.
Being poor is not a sin and nothing to hang your head over. "The measure of a man is not in the things he possesses". We all have things we deem important and not everyone feels the same.
We don't all have the same IQ's. We aren't all Martha Stewarts. Plenty here ask for advice and suggestions. That's what makes BYC such a great place. Unfortunately we don't all have the skills to do things other do. It's a good thing we don't or none of us would need the other. Now if someone is only here because they think it's their mission in life to fix others then perhaps this is not where they belong.
Perhaps the real response to the OP's question is another question. Why do you ask? From my perspective the OP's question is snobby. Not some of the responses to it. Why does anyone have to explain themselves to the OP? Unless the OP's motive is to roll up his sleeves and lend a hand or donate money to buy a new coop. Or better yet learn to recycle and turn a sows ear into a silk purse as some have done.
I have an older sister who has no problem coming into your house and upon seeing a remodel job or whatever and asking, " why did you do that? or "why did you paint it that color?" and then tell you what you should have done and how you should have done it. To do so is rude.
Seems to me there are alot worse problems in world that one can spend their time thinking about and working on.
Just my two cents,
Rancher
Yadda , yadda , yadda. I'm sorry but unfortunately the rest of the world is not like you or me. Yeah I grew up poor too and yeah I had to learn just like you, but that has only made me understand how others who are like I was and how they feel and see things. Everyone is not the same. As for the Home Depot thing, no one should go into debt to prove anything, at all costs. Even if it means snobby neighbors. Which by the way I endured. Not one of them ever helped me in anyway except to give me attitude. I will NOT become one of them just because I now live in a better neighborhood than they did.
Being poor is not a sin and nothing to hang your head over. "The measure of a man is not in the things he possesses". We all have things we deem important and not everyone feels the same.
We don't all have the same IQ's. We aren't all Martha Stewarts. Plenty here ask for advice and suggestions. That's what makes BYC such a great place. Unfortunately we don't all have the skills to do things other do. It's a good thing we don't or none of us would need the other. Now if someone is only here because they think it's their mission in life to fix others then perhaps this is not where they belong.
Perhaps the real response to the OP's question is another question. Why do you ask? From my perspective the OP's question is snobby. Not some of the responses to it. Why does anyone have to explain themselves to the OP? Unless the OP's motive is to roll up his sleeves and lend a hand or donate money to buy a new coop. Or better yet learn to recycle and turn a sows ear into a silk purse as some have done.
I have an older sister who has no problem coming into your house and upon seeing a remodel job or whatever and asking, " why did you do that? or "why did you paint it that color?" and then tell you what you should have done and how you should have done it. To do so is rude.
Seems to me there are alot worse problems in world that one can spend their time thinking about and working on.
Just my two cents,
Rancher