WHy is it good to NOT CARE what others think?

Ahhhh....but Daveroo...you never did explain the man polishing his head with a cat thing....hahahaha

Inquiring minds want to know.....

edited to add: Unless of course it's some secret squirel sorta thing and we don't want to know...lol

Great thread BTW....
 
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I didn't read all the replies, but it's a good time I think to bring up an important point. The Consitution of the United States is based on Public Virtue. Meaning doing the right thing for the good of the majority. In that case it's a good thing to care what others think. However since I think the majority has gone to the dumps and we no long practice Public Virtue (another reason the Constution no longer works) It's important now to do the right thing just because it's right. No matter what others think, but it's not ok to do what's wrong no matter what others think. So Rebellion is a bad thing, doing wrong is a bad thing, but caring what others think depends on what others think.
 
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Super-great post! You've articulated exactly how I feel, too...

I like this thread. I like reading all the different ideas and opinions. What an amazing, bright and intellectual group we have here...
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It's like we have a BYC salon going on (and I mean the old meaning of salon...)
 
No one thinks anything of wearing their pants around their knees

Lord have mercy, Dave. I gotta apologize today for my bringing down American society. I try not to, but sometimes there ain't a thing I can do.

Today I took the dog to the state park with me to go fishing. Well, the dog was feeling pretty frisky with all the other dogs around, and we had a ways to hike out to a good fishing spot. However, I had my tacklebox in a backpack, my rod in one hand, and my ice chest in another. So I clipped the dog's leash to my belt loops. It seemed like a good idea at the time.

Sure enough, we round a bend in the path and there's someone else fishing with their dog, only their dog is not so friendly and has a three-year-old holding its leash. Their dog tried to attack my dog, dragging the three-year-old with it, and my dog being the well-trained angel of a Pyrenees that he is, quickly backed away from the whole situation.

Thing is, my dog was backing away faster than I could hustle with a full backpack and both hands full o' fishing gear. Guess where my pants ended up before I could get my good doggie to stop pulling on the leash?

Hey, at least I had on clean and modest underwear! First thing I thought, "Oh lord, Daveroo will be so disappointed in me."​
 
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I think it's the Me Generation combined with a lack of respect. Of course I have said I don't care what others think - but that doesn't mean I am not respectful of others, of their place in space, of their rights to be, safe, doing their own thing.....I raised my children to call people Mr. & Mrs. No first names were allowed for adults. Adults who insisted on being called by their first names were told, by me, that it was the way they were to address adults and to please respect that. Most did, some thought I was hopelessly old fashioned. Sorry, teaching respect starts early, and with what some think are insignificant things.

The lack of respect is pervasive. I heard a great (or terrible) example of it the other day. There's a new law here in MA, first offense speeding under 18, you lose your license. Period. Then you have to take a course and pay a hefty fine. There were four young offenders in the courtroom and when they heard they were losing their licenses they went crazy, swearing at everyone, screaming, telling them all how stupid they were, how stupid it was, using words I can't put on this forum. In a courtroom! With their own parents sitting right there with them! And do you think any of those parents stopped their offspring from being complete jack*ss*s? Not a chance. That is one huge part of what's wrong today. Parents who don't parent.

Parents think they should be their kids' friends. Sorry, parents, that's not your job, it's to be a parent. If I had been in court acting up like that you'd bet your bottom dollar my father would have had plenty to say to me - but then again, I'd never do that in a court, it wouldn't even occur to me. For that matter, I've had one speeding ticket my whole life, when I was 19 and the speedo was broken on my car - it actually wasn't a ticket, but a warning. But I digress.

If one of my boys had acted like that I'd tell the judge to lock him up for awhile. But I wasn't a parent in that courtroom. I guess there really weren't any real parents there.....

I'm too tired to keep a thread going in my head. Great discussions going on in here! Night, night!
 
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I don't like to think of the majority as wrong so much as confused. When we're young (still in grade school) they tell us it doesn't matter what others think. So we quit caring. People forget to come back and explain that after a certain age we'll be expected to care about each other again. That eventually we're actually gonna need to go by the "Golden Rule" and treat each other like humans. My Grandfather told me when i got into 7th grade (6th grade was He**) that the people that knew me now were the ones that would effect my future. They'd be the ones to write referrals and encourage people to hire me. If i didn't fix my attitude and fix it quick my future would go down a very hard road. I cleaned up my act quick and I'm grateful i wasn't being an idiot when he told me that cause i can see how i would have turned out. Most People forget that key transition point.
Also Most people don't step back and just look at what the worlds become. People don't realize this "screw you, I do what i want" attitude is what has killed common courtesy. They don't even remember that the world could be a kinder place if we just cared about one another a little bit. A lot of people won't lead others by starting the traditions over again cause no one else does it any more. I'm only 15 now but even i can tell that attitude won't get me very far. (unless i'm really really lucky)
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Oh, Madonna cares what other people think. She's been widely known for having an extremely limited voice range and equally limited talent, but she is an extraordinarily good businesswoman. She writes her "music" and performs according to what people are willing to buy and regularly changes her appearance and style according to emerging trends. Just about everything she does is calculated, no doubt certain personal choices as well.

Personally, as a music and movie fanatic, I think that her music and performances rank near the bottom of the list of every possible performer. But for almost 30 years, that woman has been right on top of what people think. I would be surprised in fact if she had an original thought in her head.

As for me, I care about what other people think if I value their opinions. Otherwise, no.
 
I think there are very few people in this world that really don't care what others think about them. Many will say that they don't but I think that they are either trying to convince themselves or are sadly disillusioned. They may play around with semantics but when you really get down to it they do care.

I feel that if you don't care what people think about you and you act accordingly, that is without a conscience or morals, you do not belong in our society. If you say you don't care but still act in accordance with the mores then do you really not care?
 

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