Ignore the carbon footprint thingie, that's a whole other argument.Yeah that's fair,
The current reasons I don't want kids is carbon footprint, and the physical cons + risks
I hear a lot of mothers talk about how dehumanizing it is to have kids so that scares me too, I want to be my own person and not just a mom in other peoples eyes
But yes, for awhile, you become "that's Jeff's Mom, or, there's Eric's Mom" it'll just be another piece of who You are as a person.
Either way, not something you need to worry about now