Woman, cant live with em cant live without em!

[Beekissed]

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I agree! If I had gotten an email such as this, and being a new employee, I would have replied in much the same vein. Very cheesy to approach a complete stranger via email and invite her to your social network, particularly in a work environment~it screams "trying to get with you".

Also? Trying not to be too blunt but there is no other way to phrase it....if your email contained all the spelling and grammatical errors in it that your posting on here does, I would have ignored it in the first place. Judging from her email, this appears to be a bright young lady who wants to avoid immature young men who approach her in inappropriate ways in the work place.

 

[jbourget]

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Actually, being 20 is all the more reason to not add coworkers to your Facebook. People generally do dumber stuff, and then post about it on Facebook, at 20 than at 40. My Facebook is pathetically boring and I only have it to know what my kids are up to. Seeing as 2 of them now hate the new FB and don't use it, I'm not on it really.

Work is work. Your private life is your private life. Those two do not need to be combined together, and most people are happier without doing such combinations.

yep that has backfired at me a few tires. lesson learned i hardly post anything now, just read what other silly people are posting.

 

[jbourget]

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I agree! If I had gotten an email such as this, and being a new employee, I would have replied in much the same vein. Very cheesy to approach a complete stranger via email and invite her to your social network, particularly in a work environment~it screams "trying to get with you".

Also? Trying not to be too blunt but there is no other way to phrase it....if your email contained all the spelling and grammatical errors in it that your posting on here does, I would have ignored it in the first place. Judging from her email, this appears to be a bright young lady who wants to avoid immature young men who approach her in inappropriate ways in the work place.

Rather rude reply, no i am not "trying to get with her if you read all the posts i have written you would understand. Second, yeah big deal im no english professor and i certainly do not enjoy being called immature. you can just go on your merry little way

who are you to tell me i had a cheesy approach? and she has been working here for 2 weeks. not all that odd. thank you very much.

Edited to removed some anger and to FIX some miss spelled FAST TYPED words

 

[jbourget]

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Lot of great questions.

1: Yes actually i did shortly after reader her reply, we have a great bond were she tells me when guys at college ask her out ect and she says no. i do not get mad. she does the right thing. She told me that i got what i deserved

wich is true i suppose. all i watned to do was put a face to her name.

2: No, i probably would not have.

3: right, but no tellign when that would have been, possibly a few months yet. and its annoying with everyone talkign about her and i dont know what she looks like. all the other shop guys have been to the office since she was hired except me. Wondering if they are just filthy dogs or she is really what they say.

4: I must agree on that. yes i did.

5: Reasons stated above

great honest answers! Glad your GF is funny and honest-
and yes the guys in your office ARE dirty dogs!

you just wanted to see HOW pretty she was haha

exactly!!!! somebody understands....

 

[sonew123]

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great honest answers! Glad your GF is funny and honest-
and yes the guys in your office ARE dirty dogs!

you just wanted to see HOW pretty she was haha

exactly!!!! somebody understands....

I still don't agree with what you did though!

 

[jbourget]

LOL fair enough! well im outta here catch you cats in a few hours!

 

[eenie114]

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I agree! If I had gotten an email such as this, and being a new employee, I would have replied in much the same vein. Very cheesy to approach a complete stranger via email and invite her to your social network, particularly in a work environment~it screams "trying to get with you".

Also? Trying not to be too blunt but there is no other way to phrase it....if your email contained all the spelling and grammatical errors in it that your posting on here does, I would have ignored it in the first place. Judging from her email, this appears to be a bright young lady who wants to avoid immature young men who approach her in inappropriate ways in the work place.

Rather rude reply, no i am not "trying to get with her if you read all the posts i have written you would understand. Second, yeah big very deal im no english professor and i certainly do not enjoy being called immature. you can just go on your merry little way

who are you to tell me i had a cheesy approach? and she has been working here for 2 weeks. not all that odd. thank you very much.

You yourself stated that you would not have emailed her if you had not heard that she was good looking. Sorry, but that spells out c-r-e-e-p-y.
And as far as "big deal you're no English professor," neither are most of the rest of us. I'm younger than you and actually know to capitalize the word "English". We just have the respect for our readers to make sure that our posts are actually readable. Basic punctuation, spelling, and capitalization is something you're taught in grade school, not college.
Yes, it is odd to email some girl you've never met and ask to friend her on Facebook. No way around it, it's just creepy and weird.

 

[ChickInDelight]

You forgot to include what YOU wrote.

Be very careful. I have had many friends fired due to sexual harrassment.

Also - have you heard the expression - "Never dip you quill into the company well."

I advise you do not puruse romance at the work place.

 

[TinyChickenLady]

I wouldn't have asked her about her FB necessarily, or I would have because it will happen eventually, but to introduce yourself and give a "welcome to the company" seemed very polite to me. How many of the other guys who worked there actually said hello and welcome instead of just giving googly eyes? None, I bet. Because they are dogs and you were trying to be polite.
Good for you

And this comes from a spelling bee champ and a gramatical nit picker

 

[TinyChickenLady]

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He did say what he wrote acutally right before he shared her response. And he also pointed out the fact that he's in a long term relationship. He wasn't trying to be romantic, just cordial