She has straight up hip dysplasia. For years now. She's slowed down a bit but when my husband's around she's still really excitable. She's definitely 'his' dog. I think she forgets her age sometimes, especially when outside because she will still try to run and play but that doesn't last long. We do give her joint support supplements, but I can honestly say I'm not 100% consistent with it. They do seem to help her. The incontinence issue is mainly just stress related, getting up off the floor, things like that. A little leaky bladder after I let her out to pee. Very mild, but I know it will get worse with time. The most frustrating thing for me now, is she has really really bad separation anxiety. She always has displayed that, but it's getting worse over the last few months. Almost to the point of being irritating. But we love her so I try to just be patient as possible.I suspect she's also losing some of her hearing. I know getting old sucks, I just imagine it sucks worse in dog years. LOL
I did do the math on that, too. That is kinda why I'm asking what everyone else has experienced. My best friend had a Lab that lived to almost 18. The last 2 years of her life were miserable, loss of bladder control almost completely, she'd poo on herself toward the end, her legs would just give out on her and she'd fall down all the time. But my friend had her sooooo long I think she just couldn't let go of her. She has said that, in hindsight she felt horrible for letting it drag out that long. But Lucky is nowhere near that level of discomfort yet, as far as I can tell. I'm basically keeping a close eye on her to observe if she's giving any of the "letting us know" as @GAchickennewbie mentioned.