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This is my situation only worse my sister turned on me in one of the worst ways possible.
She has told so many lies about me and hurt me time and again until I hate her.
She has hated me from my birth and slapped me repeatedly as a child i have always been passive and forgave her.
But as I became and adult i saw how she really was and that she abused me as a child and how much she really hated me.
She is unmarried and jealous of me and my husband and children when my daughter became a teen and rebelled my sister told everyone i was and abusive mother and i didn't deserve my children.
Told everyone my daughter kept running away because of abuse i almost lost my mind over this.
She even once made the remark as she left the room on a holiday "I don't See how her husband could stay married to "That"
My sister is one of the evilest people on this earth and i have not seen her in 5 years since our mother died and i hope i never lay eyes on her again.
Drop her and go on with your life you will be much happier i tried for years to get along for the sake of my family.
The problem was i was the only one trying
My sister is 9 years older then me so we never had issues when we were growing up but as I got older we did.
when I was 15 she got me drunk and when i started throwing up she called my mom and said come get me cause she found me this way mom was mad until she found out that my sis was giving me these yummy drinks called brown cows and they tasted just like chocolate milk
when i had my son she made me out to the family that i was an unfit parent (ok i was only 18 but i lived with my mom)
she has always called my son "that animal" cause he was hyper active and I did that to him ya know cause i was bad parent. My son has NEVER been invited to any birthday parties of my niece of nephew.
my sister gossips behind my back that i am so fat and she is ashamed to be seen with me, but yet it ok to bring her coffee at work when she is working midnight shifts.
she has never bothered with my parents i mean she ignores their calls wont let my mom see her kids cause you know we are nothing but red neck slobs, >>FF>> over 15 years of her not talking to my mom and dad, my mom gets breast cancer and because i live over 2 hours away I cant be there for all her treatments but my sister is the all doting best daughter roll and is there for everything, (its just for the appearance cause she works as an RN at the hospital my mom was being treated at) now that my moms treatment is done she has not heard form my sister in over 3 weeks.
my son came to me and told me he is a sexual assault victim, my niece starts with the suicide threats over msn about 2 weeks after he came to me and really i could not handle the extra stress, I tried calling my sisters home phone and then i tried her cell about 15X and got no answer so I called the police cause she said she was going to slit her wrists and the knife was right beside her on the computer. I could not get an answer and she was 2 hours away so i called the police, my sister was so angry that the police were at her house and broke down the door she actually wanted me to pay for the door, when the police found my niece she had a huge kitchen knife with her at the computer and my sister actually had the nerve to say that I over reacted!
I stopped talking to her for over a year until a family member let it slip that I had another baby and she knew nothing about it so she showed up at my door all
but things have declined again and i really want nothing to do with her.
I was a young mom and made mistakes, did not finish high school till i was 21, got married at 22 and bought a house at 23 i was a stay at home mom for 17 years and raised my kids, drive a school bus for 15 years to help support my family. I am married to a wonderful man for 13 years now. I have gone back to school and now have a nursing degree. OK yes I am fat but o well i like my life and i really dont care if I am a size 2 or 22 if you dont like my chub then move on...lol
Good Luck
