Hi Cyn - Just read all 60 pages of posts for the first time. I'm so sorry for all these awfully sad happenings.
I hope so very much that sweet Zane is on his way to mending - no doubt whatsoever that he feels the love you and your DH have for him and this gives him both courage and comfort. Pain relief, good nutrition, love, interesting things to watch, warm sunshine and time - such a good recipe for success, if there ever was one!
Your girls - I hope somehow they rally.
If it gets to where it seems hopeless for any of them, sparing from further suffering may be the kindest thing. I think I let hen Betty suffer for too long when I had her - antibiotics and antiinflammatories for suspected internal laying really helped for awhile but then there was maybe a couple/few months of listless - pale - sad - when nothing was working anymore - her laying around all day leaning against her roo buddy, who never left her side. She lost all interest in food and really struggled when I tried to give her her meds, poor girl. The few months must have seemed an eternity to her. Me calling everyone I could think of to see if maybe a different med would be more effective. Tried switching antibiotics per U of PA rec- no luck. Finally a hysterectomy (I should have done it sooner but an x-ray taken earlier in her illness seemed to indicate no eggs in there and it really threw me off in terms of understanding what was going on). She died 2 hours afterward all alone in a cage at the vets office- still haunts me (I tried to get the vet's office to let her roo buddy stay ina cage next to her for comfort - was willing to pay but they said no)- the vet said her body was full of "festering" eggs - she was riddled with infection, my poor sweet girl. I hope so very much that whatever is happening with your girls that it can be treated before it gets this bad. If it's internal laying, they may get a restored quality of life for a quite while with antibiotics/antiinflammatories. Whatever is going on, pain relief may at least take the edge off. At least I hope so.
When it rains, it really pours like he11, doesn't it?
I'm so sorry - sending hopes and wishes for happier days ahead. I feel like Zane is going to slowly heal and get stronger and feel less pain with time.
JJ