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[SpotTheCat]

I wasn’t giving advice I just asked a question

Ummm... you said she probably pulled a muscle, then asked a question related to that, which implies you are trying to work out why she has hurt her leg

That would be a strange question to ask, unless your intention where to help work out why she hurt her leg

 

[MyParadiseFalls]

Ummm... you said she probably pulled a muscle, then asked a question related to that, which implies you are trying to work out why she has hurt her leg

That would be a strange question to ask, unless your intention where to help work out why she hurt her leg

It was literally just a question my goodness
You’re jumping to conclusions lol I swear lately people on BYC just out to get me for no reason

 

[SpotTheCat]

It was literally just a question my goodness

Well then why do you want to know?

 

[MyParadiseFalls]

Well then why do you want to know?

To make sure she’s ok? Why else

 

[SpotTheCat]

To make sure she’s ok? Why else

What , why would that tell you if she is okay? You could have just asked how she was doing. There is no way with that information and a picture you could tell her condition at all

 

[MyParadiseFalls]

Look. The simple fact is that I’m free to say whatever I want. That was MY way of making sure she was ok and I don’t know what you and several others have against me but EVERYTHING is taken the wrong way and blown way out of proportion…like i literally clarified I wasn’t giving advice, I was just making sure she was ok, why is that so wrong?

 

[SpotTheCat]

Look. The simple fact is that I’m free to say whatever I want. That was MY way of making sure she was ok and I don’t know what you and several others have against me but EVERYTHING is taken the wrong way and blown way out of proportion…like i literally clarified I wasn’t giving advice, I was just making sure she was ok, why is that so wrong?

Because of your phrasing. You always come across as hostile and defensive, specially when somebody disagrees with you

Yes you can ask whatever you want but that does not mean I have to answer, or that your question isn't rude . Like I said before what you said is implying you wanted to work out why and tell me why you though she was hurt, if you had phrased it differently then it would have come across very differently. Not asking that question to help and instead to try and jump to your own conclusion about whats happened, does not come across better

I am not saying this to be nasty, I genuinely think you should have a hard look at how you talk to and treat other people

 

[MyParadiseFalls]

Because of your phrasing. You always come across as hostile and defensive, specially when somebody disagrees with you

Yes you can ask whatever you want but that does not mean I have to answer, or that your question isn't rude . Like I said before what you said is implying you wanted to work out why and tell me why you though she was hurt, if you had phrased it differently then it would have come across very differently. Not asking that question to help and instead to try and jump to your own conclusion about whats happened, does not come across better

I am not saying this to be nasty, I genuinely think you should have a hard look at how you talk to and treat other people

And I’m working on it…aren’t we all? I just wanted to make sure she’s ok, I never meant to be hostile or rude and honestly my first statement never even implied such

 

[SpotTheCat]

And I’m working on it…aren’t we all? I just wanted to make sure she’s ok, I never meant to be hostile or rude and honestly my first statement never even implied such

No it didn't but after that is very different. And you are again getting defensive All I said is I didn't want advice and you blow it up into an attack towards you

 

[ShrekDawg]

Honestly you were both being rude as hell this time. Calm down