No where did I see it explicitly that this was just about losing weight. Really not trying to nitpick, just pointing it out. I absolutely am not here to lose weight, I'm here to do a bit of extra exercise to try and get a little more in shape and maybe gain some muscle. My extra is that, not losing weight or changing my diet, despite what other people seem to think apparently.
I totally get that what I do is absolutely wretched to some people. But it works for me and I have my own ways of helping balance it.
I just want to get a bit more in shape and figured that doing it in a group of people doing just what they feel is best for them would be best since I wouldn't be badgered about things I'm not looking to change. Yesterday morning was admittedly a little tough though and I started having second doubts this was a good fit when I made what I assumed to be a kind of joking remark/side comment and suddenly was pounced on for it.
I understand that some people here have health concerns and are working for that angle. And I get that everyone here just wanted us all to succeed with our goals. But I don't understand why it was apparently necessary for me to continuously state what I would and would not be changing and why.
Mini rant over for me with that.
