What goes around comes around! We had a similiar sit. only with a half-sister we were all raised together. But when her (our) father passed away he had it in his will that all of his assets should be split between his 6 kids all of us where named but because he did not specifically say step children the judge dicided we did not get anything and my sister took all. But and it took me along time to get over this it is only money. You just never know how low some people will go till something really aweful happens. The important thing that I learned out of all of this is that I have 3 children (all sons) everything is divided 3 ways. Everything! I have put in my will names social sec. nums, relationship to them everything I could think of. So hopefully they won't have the same problem. Anyway Im so sorry that it happened to you too. Just keep on truckin' it will all work out in the end for all parties concerned, however I haven't spoken to my sister in 6 years, and I am waiting for the day she comes and needs family, because Im afraid she no longer has one. sounds aweful I know but she made her own bed! Take care. Stormylady