So just a little story about kids if you don't mind.
DW was telling today about a coworker who was crying because she only gets to to see her grandson for 4 hrs on Sundays. It seems her son and the mother aren't together. Not sure how that went. BUT it seems the mother has a new boyfriend and a new baby and seems to think letting her see the grandson somehow affects the family dynamics badly.
The son says the boy doesn't like to go to grammas,and in no way cares. That she should buy him an Xbox. Gramma lives on a farm.
So what's my point? DW is at DD's babysitting so she can go for groceries. The SIL has a hurt back and bad tooth. I will be babysitting next Monday so they can both go while he has that tooth pulled.
I don't understand what it is with Grandparents not wanting their grandkids.
( DD just called to say she's home. She came and did her laundry. She's 30 but knows we don't like it when they don't call to let us know they got home okay. )
Now back to the kids.
We know folks that won't babysit unless they are paid or schedule ahead of time.
Our SIL's parents say they don't see why we have to have our family holidays separate.
Normally the kids come here one Christmas and the next at the other Grandparents. Same with other holidays. We get a long. It's not easy but we do. At least for me.
Showing kids how to behave in public and social situations is part and parcel to raising kids. We have friends who's kids can interact with folks of all ages.
If you believe it takes a village to raise kids there is sure to be a village at the picnic. So bring the kids.
THREE THINGS THAT PEOPLE SHOULD DO EVERYDAY, IS TELL THEIR KIDS THEY LOVE THEM. THREE TIMES - Elizabeth McDonald age 11.