So first let me say that DD's 3rd birthday is January 27th. I know there are 6 months to go but I've started to plan. My first problem is with my family. My father comes from a family of 5 siblings + a foster family with 5 siblings. My mother is an only child but my grandmother is one of five siblings.
So how do I have a birthday party for a 3 year old who has no friends and lots and lots of family members? I can't invite one with out the others.
My mom has told me it is a stupid idea but I would rather guests to bring a donation of a book or board game for children's hospital instead of gifts or even bring nothing at all. Our daughter has enough and even though my mother knows this she still told me "Well I'll be bringing her gifts." Which I responded, "she will open it after the party then and she doesn't need more then one or two." I figure my parents will give her 1 gift and we will giving her 1 gift. Since her bday is only a month after xmas and she has gift overload. In counting my mother has purchased 26+ gifts for xmas and her 3rd bday. She knows we are moving in to an RV in the spring and said she can just take all the toys with her. I have told her, "no she can't." I told her "your love is all she needs not all this stuff." My mom always has the be the best gift giver....ever. She outstages DH and I at every chance. WE wanted to buy her her first tricycle and my mom went out and bought it, even though we asked her not to and my daughter can't even ride it because she is still to small. We bought my daughter a toddler bed just a nice plain wooden one, my mom shows up with a cars themed one with lots of bedding and stuff with it. So of course my daughter wanted cars not the one we got. My mother seems to think that she should do the first with my daughter not us her parents. She has also shown some unhappiness with our decision to RV across the country, even saying " I don't think children services would approve of this." so I responded, "she has a roof over her head, proper medical/dental/vision care, food in her belly and is being schooled, There would be nothing for them to investigate." My mother is annoying the potatoes out of me.
We've choosen a theme it is based on an Anime my daughter loves My neighbor totoro. We've changed it from Sesame Street theme.
We were just going to do cupcakes, finger foods, and pizza from little ceasars, juice, water, tea (sweetened and un) My mom went "uhn I guess"
So how do I throw a party for 60+ people (6 kids)?
How do I address the issue of no presents?
How do I address the issue of my mother?
Oh yeah and there is going to be some totes sitting outside the door for the donations so that way their isn't a table of goodies for my daughter to gawk at. Sorry for the rant but I don't know what to do....
So how do I have a birthday party for a 3 year old who has no friends and lots and lots of family members? I can't invite one with out the others.
My mom has told me it is a stupid idea but I would rather guests to bring a donation of a book or board game for children's hospital instead of gifts or even bring nothing at all. Our daughter has enough and even though my mother knows this she still told me "Well I'll be bringing her gifts." Which I responded, "she will open it after the party then and she doesn't need more then one or two." I figure my parents will give her 1 gift and we will giving her 1 gift. Since her bday is only a month after xmas and she has gift overload. In counting my mother has purchased 26+ gifts for xmas and her 3rd bday. She knows we are moving in to an RV in the spring and said she can just take all the toys with her. I have told her, "no she can't." I told her "your love is all she needs not all this stuff." My mom always has the be the best gift giver....ever. She outstages DH and I at every chance. WE wanted to buy her her first tricycle and my mom went out and bought it, even though we asked her not to and my daughter can't even ride it because she is still to small. We bought my daughter a toddler bed just a nice plain wooden one, my mom shows up with a cars themed one with lots of bedding and stuff with it. So of course my daughter wanted cars not the one we got. My mother seems to think that she should do the first with my daughter not us her parents. She has also shown some unhappiness with our decision to RV across the country, even saying " I don't think children services would approve of this." so I responded, "she has a roof over her head, proper medical/dental/vision care, food in her belly and is being schooled, There would be nothing for them to investigate." My mother is annoying the potatoes out of me.
We've choosen a theme it is based on an Anime my daughter loves My neighbor totoro. We've changed it from Sesame Street theme.
We were just going to do cupcakes, finger foods, and pizza from little ceasars, juice, water, tea (sweetened and un) My mom went "uhn I guess"
So how do I throw a party for 60+ people (6 kids)?
How do I address the issue of no presents?
How do I address the issue of my mother?
Oh yeah and there is going to be some totes sitting outside the door for the donations so that way their isn't a table of goodies for my daughter to gawk at. Sorry for the rant but I don't know what to do....