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I look up house records all the time.Look up your house with the county auditor to see whose name is on the deed. I would move MIL into the guest home,and then take over the main house. In the least move into the main house.It belongs to your dh AND you.
MIL sounds very toxic. It is normal for abused people to tolerate and make excuses.Your dh needs counseling.
Sometimes it is better to walk away with nothing.Sell the home for below market value and make MIL go along with it.She listed it so high to deter buyers. She sounds horrid. I would give a time line of 2 months to save.Even a crappy efficiency apartment is better than being by her.Need to completely cut this type off. If dh can not manage to keep mom in place you need to get away until he can. You did not cause this situation and are forcing him to choose you(and child) over mom.His mom has created this situation.
Things will not get better just talking about it.Her type just gets worse over time,and that is no way to live your life.No way for your child to grow up either.Kids see and they DO understand.
Best wishes for your family.
MIL sounds very toxic. It is normal for abused people to tolerate and make excuses.Your dh needs counseling.
Sometimes it is better to walk away with nothing.Sell the home for below market value and make MIL go along with it.She listed it so high to deter buyers. She sounds horrid. I would give a time line of 2 months to save.Even a crappy efficiency apartment is better than being by her.Need to completely cut this type off. If dh can not manage to keep mom in place you need to get away until he can. You did not cause this situation and are forcing him to choose you(and child) over mom.His mom has created this situation.
Things will not get better just talking about it.Her type just gets worse over time,and that is no way to live your life.No way for your child to grow up either.Kids see and they DO understand.
Best wishes for your family.