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katbird554419
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- May 20, 2019
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She is in bed with me now. I pray to the heavens that she does not suffer any more. This is so hard.
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I’m far from an expert, but if it were my girl, I would just allow her to rest on a soft towel near you. She will feel you near. Remember, you need to stay calm & keep your breathing calm. They react to us!!
My Harley had Ascites, an illness in older girls. She was breathing hard. We had several nights like this.... I drained the built up fluid from her abdomen. It helped relieve her for a short time. A couple of days later, she fell asleep in my arms.
I did check her and didn't feel anything in there. Sadly, she passed early this morning. I need to do a lot of research to make sure this isn't going to happen to the others.I also have a hen with this, I’m glad you were able to give her some relief (I’m at the waiting for my weather to improve enough to drain my girl again stage) I don’t think that is what is going on here, though the rest of your advice is very sound. Calm and supportive, like dealing with a small child with a skinned knee (you show too much worry and they will freak out worse)
@katbird554419 Have you been able to check for egg binding? The warm soak even with just warm water, if you don’t have Epsom salts on hand, can help.
I’m so sorry for your loss 

PS, I live in Mississippi, if that helpsI just got home to bury her and am reading these sweet, helpful post from you all. I didn't think to consider a necropsy and actually had to look that word up. So, I looked at the expected cost(100 to 200 is a stretch for me this week) I think it is something I have to do. She is a blanket(she passed in bed w/me this am), will she be safe and not too late for me to take her to a vet in the am? do they charge more than mailing to a lab? If She needs to be mailed, how do you do that? How does this work? I had a friend tell me she did this years ago and the test was wrong, she kept losing birds. Thank you all for your advice and support.