Advice please! :(

[Horsewell]

just found out my Nana (who is my only real grandparent left that i know) had breast cancer last year, got it removed, and now has it at the base of her spine

she went to the hospital and took a sudden holiday to blackpool for a week today, so i dont know what to do or how to feel!

 

[Capone]

sorry to here that, my father just passed with lung cancer. there are four stages. so see how her tests go. just be ready for any thing, and love them.

 

[cassie]

Contact a hospice in your area. They should be able to provide you with information and literature to get you through this.

 

[Capone]

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great advise, they helped us so much.

 

[tonini3059]

Just hang in there it is tough,just be there and be supportive. Also do things with her, like play cards or go through an old photo album. I am going through this with my mother so I know exactly how you feel. Oh and always always get a second opinion before starting treatment or surgery!!

 

[easttxchick]

I lost my dad almost 3 years ago to cancer. The best advice I can give you is to spend time with her and tell her you love her-tell her anything you want her to know and ask her anything you want to know. In other words, make memories...

I will pray for your grandma to make a full recovery.

 

[chickaddict]

I lost my cousin to pancreatic cancer 2 months ago. She was 40 yrs old with 2 children. It took her in 5 very long and yet very short months. My prayers are with you.

Hospice is a wonderful and highly informative place.

 

[Horsewell]

thank you for all your advice, and support