im the kind of guy that beleives that if my queen is happy , then i may be happy ........ i cook , i clean , i do laundry, i take care of the kids when things go bad for them , i go grocrey shopping , i take my kids to doctor appointments , etc............ a guy doesn't have to kill things and destroy things to be manly !!! a real man does what he has to do to make life better for him and his family !!!!!