My Dh is getting me the same thing he got me last year...but this year he let it slip, bless his heart. He called on the way home from work and said 'I haven't gotten you anything for Christmas'. Same thing as last year. Who is surprised? Not me....he already annouced to me....woman who has done ALL the Christmas shopping for my DD and all his D's....that he would just be glad when it was over!
And really.....do Bless his Heart. He needs it. He really can't handle shopping for me, much less anyone else. He did let me buy the cochin hens to go with Harry. Harry being the only cochin I had and the rooster beat him up so I made him a pen in the big run and he was oh, so lonely. Now he has to build another coop...and knows it. Then he let DGD buy two EE's.....so the new coop will have to be a duplex. Then I found some rooster rubber boots online and I ordered them for myself and when they got here said look honey what you got me for Xmas. Then the microwave went out....that he had since microwaves came out and way before me. We were walking to the front of the store and he said 'theres your Christmas Present'. (I said how is it that the one that went out was yours but this one is mine?) Before we got paid out we went back to the fridge's with a girl we knew that worked there and bought a new fridge for the kitchen he is going to remodel for me 'soon'.
So, all and all I am happy. If all the grown kids, our two special needs kids and the grand kids have a good Christmas that is what is important. I have been cooking for three days for a very simple Christmas Eve dinner that is going to be soup and sandwiches. Up early this morning and starting more stuff. It is not Christmas without the goodies. Orange Cream Cheese Pound Cake, Sour Cream Twists and a table full of finger foods.
It has to be about the reason for Christmas, people putting thought into what they get for others, and having time with the ones you love. If my DH is surprised by what everyone gets, so be it. He already has a clue because he got the bank statement already. Maybe next year he will help shop!! Oh, but he does shop early Sunday mornings right before Christmas.....SOMEONE is always going to get something they are selling on HSN!! That is a sure bet! You fellas just keep trying.......