Okay, without getting to caught up in the details, i have a friend from when I used to live in another state. Known for over 10 years. Used to be really close and then over time we have kind of kept drifting back and forth. So, about 3 yrs agao there was a big argument, and this friend basically dropped me for a couple of months. Later comes back all sorry and saying that it rally was just because he was going through a tough time with a breakup. Fine, I forgave the incident, but never really got over it. I mean, it was from my perspective out of the blue and pretty much made me feel very unimportant and hurt. Since then, have remained in sporadic contact, not that I havn't reached out - but there are times I had no way to contact him. Recently another break-up, hey can we talk, blah blah -so i say sure, havn't heard from you in about 8 months, but what else are friends for. So, started back up to talking pretty regularly on the phone, but then he got mad at me (was really mad at others, but I got the brunt of it). Apoligized about a second later, but now I havn't heard from him again in a long while. I feel like I just get used for him to complain about his problems and then I get dropped like a bad habit. lol Do you think i'm right to be unhappy with this friendship? Am I a doormat? Or am I too sensative?
