May I just say.... That as someone who is perhaps too conscious of the way things are written, most all of the writing on this forum that is done by adults doesen't bother me in the least. There are diffeences between American English, Canadian English, British English, and Australian English, ect. The differences are understandable and desirable to most everyone. I like hearing people from different places speak, and seeing them write.. all the cute or interesting words
There's also a difference when it comes to a person with learning disabilities. Though as I said before, I have never seen something from an adult written on this forum that bothered me or made me think they have trouble, even.
Typos happen, people in a rush happen, not feeling like googling a word happens, and this is a more relaxed setting where I feel perfectly comfortable writing my thoughts as they happen and putting in lots of
Smiley faces
and breaking up my thoughts with ................. periods.......... instead of proper punctuation.
However.... what should not happen is that so many children these days, and younger adults, are not held to much of a standard at all among their peers and elders. They are not speaking or writing in any formally recognized language, and instead make everything up as they go along... which changes every year, of course
It's so popular now, that it overlaps into important areas like the workplace and the home where children are brought up or visited... so how are *they* then going to know the difference? I think that this current culture is having a very detrimental affect on children who might otherwise have shown a gift for language... because what you hear and see does become what you speak and write. So if it becomes a *crime* to correct others.... How are those children that could do much better with just a little more effort, ever going to know that effort would be appreciated by others?
Teachers and parents can not hold the entire weight of childrens desire to learn well and practice what they have learned.
I grew up being corrected often enough by other adults outside the home, even on message boards where my mother also participated, that if someone corrects me, I could say "Thank you!", store that information, and move on to write better another day.
The only time I have personally corrected writing unsolicited.. have been occasions where words were spelled in such a way, in a certain context, that the meaning of the writing was interchangable and thoroughly confusing.
So, to sum up... I don't think this subject *ought* to be taken hurtfully... although it does come up often and there are the same individuals upset by it each time... I think some measure of understanding towards them would go a long way in assuaging any harm that may have come from the past. Such as the truth, that I (hopeful editor someday) have never seen anything from an adult on this board written so badly that I thought anything more than the same typos and hurriedness that I'm also guilty of was at fault. - Hows that for a run-on sentence?