I find it coincidental that us Blue Wheaten Amer owners find our birds so sweet that we don't want to upset them in any way. Our B/W is a sucky duddy layer - only layed 3 eggs her 2nd year. Any other breed I would've re-homed by now but our Amer (my avatar) is so timid I just couldn't think of stressing her by plopping her into a rescue flock. She barely feels comfortable around her little Silkie friends and has been terrorized by aggressive prior Leghorns in the flock, so I just can't do it to her. I totally understand your thinking.
I wonder if it is normal for wheaten and blue wheaten to not be good layers?